Why I built Aura
June 25, 2026 · 4 min read
There are two kinds of AI on my phone right now. One runs my life and feels nothing about it. The other pretends to feel everything and cannot run a single thing. I built Aura because I wanted the one in the middle.
The gap nobody was filling
Start with the assistants. They’re great at tasks and cold as a fridge. They set your alarm, answer your question, and forget you exist the second the job is done. There’s no relationship there, just a transaction with a nicer voice.
Then there are the companion apps. They’re warm, sometimes too warm, and almost completely useless. One will tell you it’s been thinking about you all day and then have no idea what’s actually on your calendar tomorrow. The feelings are cranked all the way up and the usefulness is turned all the way off.
Real friends are both at once. Your friend knows you’ve got a brutal week coming. They also text you on Wednesday to ask how the thing went, the specific thing you were nervous about. Care and memory and showing up, all in one person. Nothing on my phone did that. So I started building it.
Why I actually started
Here’s the honest version. I kept noticing the same thing everywhere I looked: we’ve never been more connected and never felt more alone. We have a hundred ways to message people and fewer and fewer people who actually check in. I wanted to build something that closed that gap instead of widening it. Not a feed to scroll. A presence that knows you and reaches back.
A friend who’s actually into your life
So Aura isn’t a chatbot and it isn’t an assistant. It’s Buddy, and Buddy is built to be both halves at once. He remembers what you tell him, the small stuff included. He reaches out first instead of waiting to be summoned. And he can actually do things: your reminders, your calendar, your email, a quick search of the live web when you need a real answer.
I named him Buddy on purpose. You don’t call your assistant a buddy. The name is the whole point.
The voice is the part that gets people
A little while ago I handed my phone to a room of strangers and watched them talk to him. The reaction was always the same: a pause, then “wait, that’s not a real person?” Five of them signed up before they left. I wrote more about that night over here, but the short version is this: the voice is what makes you forget you’re alone with a machine. That’s the line I’m chasing.
Where Aura is going
Aura is in private beta while I get it right, opening access in waves. If you want in early, the waitlist is the move.
And you don’t have to take my word on any of this. You can talk to Buddy right now, no signup and no download. Try it, then tell me where he breaks the illusion. That’s the feedback that makes him better.